Since I moved back in with my parents (to get away from my grandmother and step-grandfather) some of my family members have been talking shit about me. My parents have a not so good history. They've been arrested for BS reasons, they had some jail time, and they're known for arguing a LOT. But they got better and our family is on the way from being whole again.
But our relatives don't know anything and assume I'm going to end up getting arrested and doing drugs. ALL BECAUSE I FUCKING MOVED OUT OF MY GRANDMOTHER'S HOUSE. For fuck's sake I couldn't stand being in that house. I took verbal abuse from my step-grandfather (who isn't even married to my grandma) and if I said ANYTHING back, then my grandmother would take HIS side even if he was wrong. In fact all my grandma did was what he wanted. And he brought in absolutely no income. It was from my grandma's retirement and the child support my mom gave to them. And the child support went to parts for his piece of shit boat. She spent over $4,000 on stuff for him then complains when my sister asked for something less than $5.
And the worst part is that my step-grandfather got rid of EVERYTHING that had to do with my actual grandpa who died of cancer. He even planned on selling some of his stuff! And surprisingly enough my grandma stopped him. I say that because she seems to always take backseat to that asshole.
All of my damn relatives had NO IDEA what was going on in that house and assume I took my parents' side over my grandmother's and step-grandfather's. I don't take sides. I do what makes me happy. And what I do is no one else's business other than who's involved. There's no fucking way I'm going to live with some bastard who fucked up my family and made my grandmother so fucking stupid. And she took care of herself and my real grandfather fine for YEARS. I looked up to her back then.
The only good thing is that he's one heart attack away from dropping dead. And when he's gone I'm throwing a huge party. (And before anyone says anything about wishing death upon others, you just haven't met someone who you hate that much)
Sorry for the rant. Need to vent out a bit.